Nathaniel Oldenburg, MA, LCPC
Clinical Counseling Specialties
ADHD
Adult Autism
Couples & Marriage
Depression
Drug & Alcohol Abuse
Young Adults
Populations served
Adolescents
Adults
Couples
Families
Additional services
Premarital Counseling
Family Counseling
Individual Counseling
Offering Consultation Specializing in:
Neurodivergence
Autism
ADHD
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)
Why Choose My Services?
With advanced training and experience in working with neurodivergent individuals. I bring empathy, expertise, and practical strategies to help you understand and support yourself, a loved one, or your clients.
As an ADHD clinician myself, I bring both professional expertise and lived experience to my work. My approach is shaped by clinical training alongside firsthand understanding of attention differences, emotional intensity, burnout, and self‑doubt in a world not designed for neurodivergent minds.
What I Offer:
Individualized consultation tailored to your needs
Strategies rooted in neurodiversity-affirming approaches
Support for navigating school, work, and home challenges
Tools for communication, regulation, and thriving
Psychoeducation for parents wanting to better understand their child
Connection is why we are here. Too often we focus on what we don't have, what we don't want, and how we don't measure up. This leaves us feeling depressed, disconnected, and isolated. I want to help you ask and answer a different set of questions. What do you already have? What do you really want? What are you passionate about? How are you already good enough?
I have 12+ years of experience working in mental health. I have worked in crisis intervention and assessment, family and individual work with children and adolescents, and substance abuse counseling.
I am passionate about working with couples, teens, and adults addressing issues around love and belonging, depression and bipolar, substance use and addiction, self-esteem, identity and purpose, and being Autistic. I take a neurodiversity-affirming approach to helping Autistic clients better accommodate their sensory and support needs in order to help prevent burnout.
Neurodiversity‑affirming counseling respects neurological differences, centers strengths, validates lived experience, and supports self‑advocacy without trying to fix, pathologize, or normalize clients.
As someone who is ADHD myself, I don’t just understand these challenges professionally—I’ve lived them. My work is informed by both clinical training and firsthand experience navigating attention, emotional intensity, burnout, and self‑doubt in a world not designed for neurodivergent brains.
Education
Master of Arts in Marriage & Family Therapy, Governors State University, 2013
Bachelor of Art in Psychology, Bradley University, 2009
Licensing, Training & Certifications
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC)
National Certified Counselor (NCC)
When I am not in the office, I enjoy spending time with my wife and daughter, reading science fiction and fantasy novels/webcomics, playing video games and board games, and listening to music.
Nate’s Book Recommendations:
How to ADHD
by Jessica McCabe
Explaining AuDHD
by Dr Khurram Sadiq
Small Talk: 10 ADHD Lies and How to Stop Believing Them
by Richard and Roxanne Pink
Come Together
by Emily Nagoski, PhD
The Autistic Burnout Workbook
by Dr. Megan Anna Neff
“Like the Second Law of Thermodynamics, which says that in closed energy systems things tend to run down and get less orderly, the same seems to be true of closed relationships like marriages. My guess is that if you do nothing to make things get better in your marriage but do not do anything wrong, the marriage will still tend to get worse over time. To maintain a balanced emotional ecology you need to make an effort—think about your spouse during the day, think about how to make a good thing even better, and act.”
— John Gottman