Nathaniel Oldenburg, MA, LCPC

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Clinical Counseling Specialties

  • ADHD

  • Adult Autism

  • Couples & Marriage

  • Depression

  • Drug & Alcohol Abuse

  • Young Adults

Populations served

  • Adolescents

  • Adults

  • Couples

  • Families

Additional services

  • Premarital Counseling

  • Family Counseling

  • Individual Counseling

Offering Consultation Specializing in:

  • Neurodivergence

  • Autism

  • ADHD

  • Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)

Why Choose My Services?

With advanced training and experience in working with neurodivergent individuals. I bring empathy, expertise, and practical strategies to help you understand and support yourself, a loved one, or your clients.

As an ADHD clinician myself, I bring both professional expertise and lived experience to my work. My approach is shaped by clinical training alongside firsthand understanding of attention differences, emotional intensity, burnout, and self‑doubt in a world not designed for neurodivergent minds.

What I Offer:

  • Individualized consultation tailored to your needs

  • Strategies rooted in neurodiversity-affirming approaches

  • Support for navigating school, work, and home challenges

  • Tools for communication, regulation, and thriving

  • Psychoeducation for parents wanting to better understand their child

Connection is why we are here. Too often we focus on what we don't have, what we don't want, and how we don't measure up. This leaves us feeling depressed, disconnected, and isolated. I want to help you ask and answer a different set of questions. What do you already have? What do you really want? What are you passionate about? How are you already good enough?

I have 12+ years of experience working in mental health. I have worked in crisis intervention and assessment, family and individual work with children and adolescents, and substance abuse counseling.

I am passionate about working with couples, teens, and adults addressing issues around love and belonging, depression and bipolar, substance use and addiction, self-esteem, identity and purpose, and being Autistic. I take a neurodiversity-affirming approach to helping Autistic clients better accommodate their sensory and support needs in order to help prevent burnout.

Neurodiversity‑affirming counseling respects neurological differences, centers strengths, validates lived experience, and supports self‑advocacy without trying to fix, pathologize, or normalize clients.

As someone who is ADHD myself, I don’t just understand these challenges professionally—I’ve lived them. My work is informed by both clinical training and firsthand experience navigating attention, emotional intensity, burnout, and self‑doubt in a world not designed for neurodivergent brains.

Education

  • Master of Arts in Marriage & Family Therapy, Governors State University, 2013

  • Bachelor of Art in Psychology, Bradley University, 2009

Licensing, Training & Certifications

  • Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) 

  • National Certified Counselor (NCC)

When I am not in the office, I enjoy spending time with my wife and daughter, reading science fiction and fantasy novels/webcomics, playing video games and board games, and listening to music.

Nate’s Book Recommendations:

“Like the Second Law of Thermodynamics, which says that in closed energy systems things tend to run down and get less orderly, the same seems to be true of closed relationships like marriages. My guess is that if you do nothing to make things get better in your marriage but do not do anything wrong, the marriage will still tend to get worse over time. To maintain a balanced emotional ecology you need to make an effort—think about your spouse during the day, think about how to make a good thing even better, and act.”

— John Gottman